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UPDATE (10/28/15)
What a roller coaster…
As many of you know, we recently took Beckett in for his first invasive procedure in over 2 years. On October 6th, Beckett had a Heart Cath at Riley Children’s Hospital. Leah did a great job explaining in our last post how that went and what that Cardiologist who preformed the Cath suggested as “next steps.”
In a nutshell, we went into that Cath with an understanding that Beckett is not ready for his 3rd/last open-heart surgery for at least another 6-12 months. Our primary Cardiologist ordered the Cath because he wanted/needed to confirm that Beckett is looking as good on the inside as he is looking on the outside. After the Cath, Beckett apparently looked so good that the Cardiologist who preformed the Cath suggested we perform his last open-heart surgery within 6 weeks. Leah and I nearly fell off our seats. Since that day we have been waiting patiently near the phone for our primary Cardiologist to call and confirm if he agrees with the assessment to proceed with Beckett’s final surgery sooner than later. Whelp, we just got the call……
Apparently our primary Cardiologist believes we should still wait…..what a roller coaster of emotions. He has his reasons, but without going into too many details, one of the main reasons is that he wants Beckett a little bigger. He’s only about 4 pounds shy of what is desired, but this weight deficit is the simplest way to explain why we have to wait, but there are other specificities involved. All-n-all, Beckett still looks great, and the decision to wait had his best interest in mind.
It’s difficult because we weren’t prepared for the news to possibly reopen our son this soon, but then to spend the past 3 weeks (or so) convincing ourselves that this is a good thing and then being told “nope, never mind, we still need to wait” is emotionally taxing. We really do appreciate the care for our son and do not question their decisions for a second….I’m just being transparent that it was hard hearing news that sways our emotions so drastically. However, one-day-at-a-time. If they call and change their mind again, we’ll roll with it again. Whatever is best for Beckett….we will do! We still greatly appreciate the support and encouragement from you all. Unfortunately, we are not “out-of-the-woods” just yet, but we’re a day closer. My son is in his crib right now, sleeping…and he’s as charming and wonderful as it gets! We are truly blessed to have had another day with him, and believe there will be many many more!
We’ll be in touch, thanks again, and God bless!
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UPDATE 10/7/15 To begin, Beckett did amazing yesterday with his heart cath. We could not have been more pleased with how well he handled both spending the day in the hospital and the procedure itself. We arrived just before nine and Beckett didnât go into his procedure until twelve-thirty. So, we spent the morning taking Beckett on toy car rides, wagon rides, and chasing him around pre-op. The nurses, Jonny, Grandma Linda and I all took turns pushing and pulling Beckett through the department.
We were blessed to have a nurse in the cath lab that has known Beckett since his St. Vincent NICU days, so it was a comfort as she wheeled him away. His procedure only lasted two hours and Beckett was extubated and awake when we got into PACU where Beckett was recovering. The nurses had Mickey Mouse Clubhouse playing, which is Beckettâs favorite, and he was lying quietly and perfectly content. He saw us coming from way down the hall and began calling mommy. It was music to my ears. He had to lie flat with his right leg straight for the next four hours. The nurses could not believe how well he did for such a young age. He lay there just like he was supposed to. They put him in an adult bed to go upstairs to the floor so that I could lay with him and help keep him still. Beckett loved it. When we got upstairs we were greeted by both Jonny and Iâs parents and Beckettâs face lit up like Christmas morning. This kid truly is a lover. It wasnât until about hour 3.5 that he got restless and we let him open a few gifts people had gotten him. You could tell he had been through a lot. The sweet boy kept asking âyap?â because he wanted to sit in my lap, and it broke my heart that I had to tell him no. When the four hours were finally over and I picked Beckett up, he pretty much didnât let me put him down for the next three hours. Even getting him in the car seat to go home made him shed a little tear. It warms my heart to know just holding him comforts and calms his fears. We were discharged home shortly before seven and that was that. It took a while for it to sink in that everything had gone smoothly, just as planned, and we were getting discharged the same day. After all the times Beckett took the road less traveled it was incredible that we didnât even have to stay over night. This boy has grown and gotten stronger, and is by no means the same sickly kid he used to be.
Now down to the nitty gritty. The purpose of the cath was to obtain pressures and pictures. They looked at the pulmonary arteries, the right ventricle and the aorta. Especially important are the aorta and the left pulmonary artery because Beckett has had those ballooned in the past, and they need to make sure they are not stenosed (basically a pinch in the tubing if you will). These both looked great, in fact since having the second surgery the left pulmonary artery looks better than it used to. Before Beckettâs last surgery his pulmonary pressures were around 20-22. Ideally for that surgery they like them to be between 12-15. So, three weeks before the surgery Beckett was started on a special medication in hopes that the pressure would be lowered by the time his surgery rolled around. If you remember, the pressures had lowered enough at the time, which is why Beckett was able to have the second surgery. Hereâs the amazing part; yesterday, the pressures were 9. 9! Single digits. Thatâs insane. The doctor was so pleased, he said it is very likely after Beckettâs completion surgery he wonât even need that medication any more. Praise the Lord! The doctor said things look absolutely great and he could not be happier with where Beckett is. It is one thing to look good on the outside, but it an entirely other thing to look good on the inside. One thing Beckett does have is what they call collateral vessels. They develop in these kids, especially early on, to bring more blood to the lungs. In previous caths they didnât find any they thought they needed to fix. This time, however, at the last minute the doctor saw something he needed to take a closer look at. They had already accessed Beckett through the right side of his neck as well as his right femoral vein, so they accessed his right femoral artery and when they injected the dye the collateral vessel was bigger than they originally thought. So, they went ahead and placed four coils (springs with a mesh fabric) in the vessel, which plugs off the blood flow. This will decrease unknown bleeding in the next surgery. The coils will remain in place for the rest of his life, which is just a little added hardware, and will be a great benefit when they do his completion surgery. We are grateful for thorough doctors.
The last little bit of information that literally almost made us fall out of our chairs is this:
Dr. Hoyer (the interventional cardiologist that performs Beckettâs caths) recommends his Fontan completion surgery in the next SIX WEEKS! Are you kidding me?!
With Beckettâs pressures as low as they are and how well he is doing, there is not reason to wait. He probably isnât going to be more ready. The longer we wait the more likely this information will be outdated and he will need another cath before surgery. So, we are waiting for him to confer with Beckettâs cardiologist and the surgeon and they will let us know the next step. Until then we keep doing life, but Beckett could be having his final surgery before we know it. We will let you know when we know. Thank you for all the continued prayers and support. We felt it yesterday as strong as ever. Our boy is brave and he makes me proud each and every day.
It’s been a long day, but…..we are home! I can’t believe it. We do have some news to share, but we’ll post a more informative update tomorrow. For now, he’s doing well, we’re doing well…and we’re all exhausted. đ Thanks for all the support!#GoBeckett
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Leah and I would greatly appreciate some prayers tomorrow. They will be putting Beckett under and performing a Heart Cath on him at around 11:00am. We fully expect this to go nice-n-smooth…but that doesn’t mean we haven’t been a little jittery about it all. Thanks.#GoBeckett
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#HeartOfBeckettI wanted to create a symbol that personified Beckett and his story. The “B” (for Beckett) is a heart. However, the heart is diminished on one side to represent his condition (HLHS). The ribbon embodies life and hope; it has a beginning, but the end is not in sight. Merely a gentle reminder of where we’ve come and a guide to where we’re going.